Attachment Parenting
What Else You Should Know about Attachment Parenting
Attachment parenting means to the style of care to the infant in order to get the best possible care for both the infant and parents. Attachment parenting exclusively includes seven different attachment tools. These tools are birth bonding, breastfeeding, baby wearing, bedding close to baby, sensible response to baby's cry, beware of baby trainers and balance.
Birth Bonding
As soon as the baby is born, the natural, intuitive and biological attachment promoting behavior between infant and mother takes place. Post-birth period is an excessively sensitive phase during which both baby and mother are uniquely programmed with the desire to be close with each other. At this phase, the infant is seeking care at the best possible fashion and the mother is most set to nurture the baby.
Breastfeeding
To the babies, mother's breast is a symbol of love and affection. While promoting the attachment parenting together, breastfeeding allows both the baby and the mother to start their loving journey together in the course of life. Different scientific researches confirm that breast milk exclusively contains inimitable brain-building nutrients which can not be produced artificially.
Baby Wearing
When the parents hold the baby within their arms, it enhances the sensitivity of both parents and infant. When the mother or other caregivers hold the baby, it bothers less and spends time mostly at the state of calmness. It secures the closeness.
Bedding Close to Baby
Co-sleeping helps to stay connected with the babies and it is especially beneficial for those parents who are busy at the day time. This is an important phase for attachment parenting because it minimizes nighttime separation anxiety and helps the infant to attain a peaceful sleeping environment.
Respond Sensibly to Baby's Cry
One of the most important attachment parenting styles is to provide appropriate and sensible response towards baby's cry. This phase is intrinsically vital and it affects profoundly the infant's psychosocial development. Infant's needs must be met consistently following the cry. If the infant's mother or caregiver fails to respond appropriately to the infant's cry, it may lead to develop mistrust in the infant towards the environment.
Beware of Baby Trainers
Attachment parenting guides the parent to value the inner intuition and it also advocates motherly feeling and attachment especially when it comes to provide response to infant's needs. If you are a parent and really care about attachment parenting style, you should not follow 'convenience' parenting style that will guide you to follow an extreme parenting style dependent on strict and rigid schedule instead of infant's cry.
Balance
Keep a healthy balance between your child's needs and your personal / marital life. While doing so many things for your babies, it is quite possible that you neglect yourself or your partner. This should not be done. An appropriate attachment parenting style is to respond promptly to your infant's needs, however, also to maintain the wisdom to help yourself out especially when you need help.
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